I have this 7 things list on my mind the past days...
1. Know that the space and miles in between should come to an end sooner or maybe later. Do not allow yourself to get used to being away from each other for quite too long a time.
2. If at your present moment being together at once is an impossibility (like JT and I waiting to follow suit Joe in Cnd), always have the courage and hope for your dream to realize one day- family being and living together.
3. There are times when you see complete families going to church, eating out, or travelling...and you smile and sigh at the same time wishing similar sight...Just hold on and enjoy what you are seeing. Then at your quiet time before you sleep, open your mobile fon or get your photo album to reminisce. A simple photo of us going out on a lakwatsa gives me the immediate boost.
4. Communicate. Cliche this may sound but there is indeed a big grain of truth. Skype, Viber, Zoom, postal services, telegram, etc... These are just few means to keep in touch. We are lucky enough that with the advent of internet or wifi or data plan communication becomes economical and immediate. Imagine 20 yrs ago one has to go to PT&T to call or wait for 2-3 weeks before you get hold of the mail sent to you!
5. Arguments or altercations are inevitable esp in this kind of scenario. Always strive to listen first and emphatize. The distance or longing for each other sometimes become the rootcause---unconsciously. Keep your cool and as much as possible iron things out. Then start and begin a new and learn.
6. Men sometimes may want to resolve things on their own (remember Popoy?) and us women and our nosy nose want to know every single detail. Well, we can just give them encouraging words and give them assurance instead of nagging.
7. Pray. Above everything else. Always ask God for the grace and fortitude. Let the joy and excitement of being together again be your impetus. In the meantime strive to live each moment well.
Cheer up! You are never alone.
